PANTANG DENGAN ORANG TAK DENGAR CAKAP : SESI INSAF KEMUDIAN BUAT LAGI

PANTANG DENGAN ORANG TAK DENGAR CAKAP : SESI INSAF KEMUDIAN BUAT LAGI

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Hmm. Belum pape dah mengeluh. Tapi inilah dilema Mommy.

Selalu je mengeluh nak jadi mak yang baik, nak jadi mak yang baik, takmo marah-marah, takmo garang-garang.

Tapi terjadi juga!

Keadaan macam tu selalu terjadi kalau anak2 dah bijak reply apa yang kita cakap.

Mommy : kakak.. go kencing
Hannah : taknak.. kakak taknak kencing lagi (padahal dah duduk bersimpuh)

grrr..

masa tu, TIPS YANG PALING BERKESAN ialah counting “ONE.. TWO..THREE!!”

Tapi belum sampai Three tu, dia dah lari pecut ke toilet.

Takkan la nak ugut cara macam tu je selalu?

Cakap baik-baik, kadang jalan, kadang pijak kepala. Hish.

Mendatangkan amarah je la.

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Grrrrrrr..

Tapi tu lah, bila berjauhan, rindu je. Sambil bertekad, Mommy taknak marah-marah hari ni. Bila dah balik rumah, dia tak dengar arahan, especially suka berebut dengan adik, bikin adik menangis, masa tu naga Mommy dah keluar. Haih.

Macam mana la..

Terbaca ini

If your method of discipline is yelling and screaming, you have a problem. You don’t understand what discipline means. Yelling and screaming communicates this simple truth to the child, “I have more power over my parents’ emotions than they do.”
Children don’t need parents that have no control over their own emotions. Children need loving boundaries. They need the rules and consequences spelled out for them and applied without regard to emotion. Discipline by the rules you set, not by anger. There is no need to yell. The consequences should be swift and easy to understand.

And it is helpful to walk the child through the process. “What did you do wrong?” “What is the punishment for your action?” After the punishment is applied, there is also nothing wrong with following up with a hug and an, “I love you.”
Finally, spanking is an appropriate punishment for willful disobedience. I don’t care what any so-called expert claims. Spanking should be a clear and understood consequence for an inappropriate behavior. Spanking is NOT to be an anger release for the stressed out parent. If you strike your kid out of anger, YOU have a serious problem.”

Sigh.

Mommy harap Mommy akan kekal bertabah selalu (tumbuk dinding).

4 Replies to “PANTANG DENGAN ORANG TAK DENGAR CAKAP : SESI INSAF KEMUDIAN BUAT LAGI”

  1. kan..biasa tu. Bila anak tidur rasa sian je bila anak kene marah

  2. hmmm.. royan kot Mommy ni. iskkk

  3. Kadang bila marah anak.. mmg menyesal balik lepas tu. pastu tahan diri seminggu bagi taknak marah2. lepas seminggu terlepas balik marah.. aduhai.. dilema gak nih…
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    1. kan. dan perkara itu akan terus berlaku dan berlaku. mak mana x sayang anak kan?

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